The movie producer/writer, Nora Ephron, died last week. It was all over the news and Twitter, and everyone it seemed had good things to say about her. She did do several movies I liked: Silkwood, When Harry Met Sally, and whatever that Tom Hanks-Meg Ryan movie was where they meet at the Empire State Building.
Anyway, one tweet I read took me to a website that reprinted a list that Ephron had ended one of her books with (I Remember Nothing). Here is the link to the site and her writing: Nora Ephron’s Lists. I don’t know the context of the lists because I haven’t read the book, but I immediately felt I had a topic for my own set of lists: my journey dealing with breast cancer and having a genetic component attached to that diagnosis. Maybe my lists will help me put some things behind me, so I can move on to the wellness part of my life.
Things I Won’t Miss
Sympathetic stares from people who don’t know me
The emergency room
Locking the bathroom door
The long drive to Winston Salem
Being out of work
Feeling helpless in the face of the unknown
People who tell me how great my hair cut/color is — IT’S A WIG!!
Scars: inside and out
Things I Will Miss
The doctors and nurses for being gentle and concerned with my healthcare
Time alone with Kevin on a regular basis (even though it was stressful)
Being normal — not a mutation
Cuddling with LilyBelle like before I lost my breasts
Feeling like a girl (woman)
Napping whenever the mood strikes me
Threatening to show Jake and LilyBelle my baldness if they didn’t stop arguing/aggravating each other
My sister being at my beck and call
Law & Order SVU marathons all day Tuesdays
Coconut cake on chemo day
I have to say that writing the second list was harder — I had to dig deep to find some value to this experience that is part of who I am now. It’s difficult to accept changes, especially one like this. I’m grateful, though, for what I found.
What sort of topic would you use to write you’re own lists?